Well Done!!! My little brother!!!!

Just the other day I came across my younger brothers blog.... and my was I surprised!!! When did my little "bhaiyya" grow up and writes about respecting/appreciating "her"!!! I guess this is what you call "Love".....
Here is the write up which I found on his blog...



Please appreciate "HER"
Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry with these facts as well. Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are; Who is earning almost as much as you do; One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are; One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life; One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family ,name One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you; One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities; Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met; One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her; One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstained support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it. But not many guys understand this...... Please appreciate "HER"

Well...after reading through it I just wish every man in this world could use some of these well said words..... Afterall what else a woman needs???

Life begins at 40…..

Read this in a newspaper today. It really amuses me that why am I amused at such prospective article??? What makes me look forward to turning 40 so that I can actually start enjoying life?? Why not today when I'm 28 years old? Or haven't I had good time all this while? These are few questions which I ask myself..... And deep down in my heart I know that whether I am 28 or 40 I will always make things happen for me and if not then I'll mold my mind into such that it will be happy and at peace with what its got. Its just matter of how you want, when you want, what you want, where you want to make or break your life!!!

What is God????

Is God real? Surprisingly, this fundamental question is simplistic in nature. It is solved by asking another question, "Where did everything come from?" And there is only one common answer that we get to hear "God has created it". No wonder there is a super power because of which we are all able to live, to breathe. But then where is this super power from super someone coming from??

I started thinking about this when I was about 15 years old. Sometimes I would think about my parents that who are these people I am living with? From where did they come from? Who am I? And then accompanied by these uncomfortable thoughts a horror would strike me in my face. What will happen if I loose these people I am living with? If they are just"people" how come I am insecure without them? Why am I afraid to loose them? And then tears would swell in my eyes and I needed my mothers arms my fathers strong shoulders to lean on to feel safe. Yes thats when I realized who I am.....

I have heard many stories and tales about people in search of themselves, not knowing who they are. But my side of story is I know what I am, who I am. I am here to live a life given to me by my parents, nurture it with their upbringing, cultivate it by their values and cherish it with their memories. For me they are my super-power who have brought me into this world and have taught me to live a life (which I had no clue about). It is so simple. Thats the story of my life. But what about this entire universe, this entire land, this entire aura that we live in. Who has given birth to that? the universe at some point began! The implications of these scientific observations have caused atheists to seek out a mechanism by which the universe could have created and developed itself via random chance, without any Intelligent Director.

Ask a Humanist like me, "Is God real?" and you will get a resounding "No!". Because I believe you are your own God. God is nothing but what is planned for you in your lifetime and even after death. To know your self and to beleive in it is half the battle won with life. Rest its your destiny which will take you there.

Arrived.........

here it comes..
to soak my heart....
in the dew drops
from up above....

here it comes
to fill my heart
with pure delight
from up above

come to me
with drops of joy
with drops of hope
with drops of love............

SOUL SEARCHING

A part of me lies with you

Its all yours old and new

And one part of me wanders in the dark

In search of I know not

I guess I'm in search of my soul

Which I have lost it years ago

Do not ask me where did it go

Cause I want it to be so

Forget looking for it

I have no desire to get it back

Cause I know somewhere in my heart

It is there where it belonged......

Destination Unknown

So restless is my soul

Wandering lost no where to go…

Seeking that perfect place

Where no expectations behold

Why am I going around in circles?

What is that I'm looking for?

How will I get there?

When my mind sets me free of all

You say I got a trouble

But have I let you in my room yet?

You will never ever get that far

Cause I'm still on the way trying to get there….

I tell my heart

Please your self in the journey

But it interrupts me saying

Which destination are you heading…….